Silence is golden

Silence and noise, another pair of opposing matters, after being discussed about dream versus reality, and followed by truth versus lie. Suddenly I had been in feeling of sharing my personal view upon silence and noise.

Sometimes is better to keep silent than to tell others what you feel because it hurts badly when you come to know that they can hear you but can not understand.

To find a real and sincere listener is as looking for precious gem, it was somewhere around us, but yet to be discovered. That is my perception about listener.

Being a listener, one has to listen, not just hear, listen by mean of being focus, concentrate on the person who speaks or voice out his / her words. By hearing itself, one could not understand the meaning(s) being portrayed by the one who speaks. Without understanding there is no point being a listener.

Therefore some people might just opt to be silent rather than looking for listener, because it disappoints more when one hears but can not understand.

Good listener will just listen all along the words from the one who speaks, and responds after understand the meaning(s) behind those words. However such good listeners are rarely seen, in reality not much of such good quality of listeners.

Dark and Light

It has been a long time where I had not been updating my blog, as I did not have ample of time for constructing my new blog title.

What I think about my new topic would be some new thoughts that came across my mind not long ago.

In the past, most often I can't see what was in front of my path, mainly I referred myself as in dark condition, where I seemed like walking without any trace, while I still have to continue walking. Somehow I was just walking without knowing the end, where everything seemed to be black for me. 

I kept telling myself on day the light will come upon me to shine into the dark sight from me, where I can find my real path to move forward. 

There were few times where I thought I saw some bright shines, but eventually it turned out to be dimmer and dimmer as times goes by, where I found the truth behind those "lights". After all my path turned out to be dark again, as I was at rock tunnel without any single hole for light to come in.

There will be one day where I found the real light that shine upon my path, where I found the lead to my true way to move on, I believe and I will not give up.